You watch their videos and wonder – “How can I be just like them ?” or “How can I do that too?”

Those sultry bottoms of the silver screen (on your smartphone) make it look so effortless. Eager and willing, even demanding that their top guy gives them every centimetre that they desire to satisfy their hungry holes. But my dears, it takes a lot of preparation and practice. Just ask any one of them and I am sure that they will all agree.

Here are 10 quick points to help you get that coveted award:

#1. Make sure its all clean down there. 

#2. Let the top think he is in charge but just as with any other performance there is a an award for ‘best supporting actor’.

#3. Know how your S-Cruve works. Its the first curve in your rectum and it needs to be in the right position to take his big cock all the way up inside you with out feeling like you are being stabbed.

#4. Maybe you like the feeling of #3 and experiencing some pain and discomfort. So then you can skip that step. 

#5. Try different positions. Just like the scenes from a porn movie mix it up a little for variety You might be surprised!

#6. practice, Practice PRACTICE! There are hundreds of sizes, shapes and colours of dildos just one click away. Give one or even a dozen a try. Its like going to the gym for your hole. 

#7. Slip and Slide. All moving parts require some kind of lubrication. Spit, or some other kind of lube – water based or silicone. I once had a date that used only organic olive oil. Only you will know what works best for you.  

#8. Have him munch and slurp your ass first. It helps to relax everything and get the party started. 

#9. Try giving a blow job first to get his cock all hard and wet and then sit on it. This is a great position and it should slide right in.

#10.  Let the top know when he is working your G-spot for the win. Maybe he can even make you cum “hands free”! This is the money shot equivalent in world of bottoms most everyone is searching for.

And our bonus tip is: 

Write a great but short and demure acceptance speech for your ‘Best Bottom’ award! (bw)

header image: award winning porn star Alam Wernik